Bring The Pain
The small twinge, a bit of soreness, the random pain, the normal pains we live in everyday. Then there's the kind of pain you can't ignore. A level of pain so great that it blocks everything out, everything else. Makes the rest of the world go away. Until all we can think about is how much it hurt. How we manage our pain is up to us.
Pain, anesthise it, ride it out, embrace it and ignore it. And for some of us to manage pain is to just push through it.
Pain, you have to ride it out. Hoping it goes away on its own. Hope the wound that cause it heals.
There are no solutions. No easy answers. You just breathe deep and wait for it to subside. Most of the time pain can be managed. But sometimes the pain gets you when you least expect it. Hits way below the belt and doesn't let up. Pain, you just have to fight through. Because the truth is, you can't outrun it. And life always makes more.
? 8:12 PM
Gratitude. Appreciation. Giving thanks.
No matter what word you use, it all means the same thing.
Happy.
We're suppose to be happy, grateful for friends, family, happy to just being alive.
Whether we like it or not.
Maybe we're not suppose to be happy.
Maybe gratitude has nothing to do with joy.
Maybe being grateful means recognising what you have for what it is.
Appreciating small victories.
Admiring the struggle it takes simply to be human.
Maybe we're thankful for the familiar things we know.
And maybe we're thankful for the things we'll never know.
And at the end of the day, the fact that we have the courage to still be standing is courage enough to celebrate.
? 4:20 AM
Communication, it's really the first thing we learn in life.
Funny thing is, once we grow up, learn our words, and really start talking, the harder it becomes to know what to say of how to ask for what we really need.
Some things we just don't want to hear.
And some things we say because we can't be silent any longer.
Some things are more than what you say, they're what you do.
Some things you say because there's no other choice.
Some things you keep to yourself.
And not too often but every now and then, some things speak for themselves.
? 12:33 PM
Why do some people cannot get over the fact that the relationship is over?
My ex, unfortunately is still alive and had been doing all sort of stuff to get on my nerve. The things she has done is so unbelievable.
All the drama....is very tiring. She cannot get over the fact that we broke up so she has to make up some stories, awful ones some more. We broke off like 3 months ago but till today I keep hearing things about me from our mutual friends.
Wat is wrong wif her? Doesn't she have anything better to do than to keep checking up on me?? Who is she to say I have to stop goin clubbing to our usual place just because I'm no longer with her.
I went there before I hook up with her, I went there when I was with her and I damn well gonna go there even though I'm not with her.
? 6:40 PM
Your Subconscious Self
What's Really on Your Mind?
MiSs^eViL, your subconscious mind is most preoccupied with issues around your love life
On a conscious level, you might already be aware that something is troubling you, or eating up a lot of time when it comes to your love life. But it's also possible that thoughts and feelings about your romantic life have been preoccupying your subconscious mind — leaving you with nothing more than a general sense that things just don't feel 100% right in your life though you can't quite figure out why.
You may feel your love life is unfulfilling and needs a jumpstart. You might be going through a lot of changes in your love life that you find emotionally draining. You might simply spend a lot of time thinking about romantic relationships. Or maybe you're so frustrated with your situation that you avoid the topic all together.
Whichever feelings hold true, your test results indicate that right now, your subconscious mind is working overtime to resolve the issues confronting you in this area of your life — even if you don't feel aware of it.
However, you can learn easy ways to tap into your subconscious mind and discover the source of the issues that are preoccupying you.
? 2:25 AM
